Friday 26 January 2018

Chief Tips To Single Muslims Aspiring Marriage

By Ann Perry


Acknowledging someone to be deeming fitting for your lifetime partner is not an easy task especially for a Muslim. Single Muslims have always had hard times identifying the right person especially because they dispense dating unlike many cultures and societies in the world. For a Muslim believer, meeting a marriage partner completes half their faith and Allah perceives it as a form of worship. Therefore, one must uphold purity by all means possible. Throughout the article, singles will identify fundamental tips to mull over in order to have an irrefutable lifetime partner juggling encounter.

Primarily, a Muslim gentleman or lady should always exercise patience throughout their juggling endeavors. Identifying a lifetime partner must be based on patience but not haste decisions. Over the years, the millennial generations are faced with a common tendency of being haste even while choosing a long term relationship partner. The right person to marry will never appear like in the movies but will demand time; hence patience.

At times, endeavor to participate through the activities arranged and organized by your local mosque. Through your engagement, you stand a chance of meeting and having acquaintances with fellow believers of the opposite sex. There is one thing to note; common interests. This common interest such a sense of service or attendance to the same mosque matters a lot and it can stand out to be an anchored foundation of a long lasting marriage.

Following the technological developments, internet has availed opportunities where Muslims can meet partners online from all over the world. There are dating or rather introductory sites purposely designed for Muslim singles. While signing up, you must incorporate correct info about you and your whereabouts. Ensure you remain steadfast to the original purpose of getting a lifetime partner.

While meeting for the first time, you should always be escorted by a trusted adult. There is a common tendency of young people neglecting chaperoning which should never be the case with you. Make the first meeting simple and safe. For instance, you can either have coffee, lunch or even attend an activity together while still accompanied by your escort. Always ensure that the meeting is light and amicable.

Always show reverence to the person. There are circumstances when you shall meet a person and realize they are not fit for a lifetime partner. If that is the case, make sure to respect them and treat them nicely and appropriately. They still have feelings and hurting them will be a violation of their rights and believes. For the man, consider treating the lady with utmost care, decency and etiquette as they will always be searching for a husband in you.

Consult widely with your parents who over the years have learned all the turns and the twists of relationships and marriages. Eventually, they will have a piece of guidance into things that you need to uphold and mull over. Always garner ideas from their wise counsels. At times, your parents will always have a suggestion or two as they know what is best for you.

Being honest will save you a lot of trouble, hustles and hassles. Therefore, be yourself and keep it real. Never try forgery while looking for a lifetime partner. Your profile matters a lot and if founded on deception and lies, it will surely fail. Note, honesty is vitally irrefutable as long as marriage is concerned.

Conclusively, every Muslim must always seek the guidance of Allah. Allah has always showered those that seek guidance with both wisdom and discernment. Consequently, you will have a safe, effective and victorious encounter with your partner.




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